Sunday, October 19, 2008

confessions are good for the soul

a few weeks ago, my sweet friend linda mentioned, that we all "look" pretty good on our blogs. we talk about the happy things, we share the beauty in our world, and our families look pretty perfect! i agreed with her sentiments, we laughed, and i have been thinking about it ever since. even when i share some of my bad habits and flaws, or those of my children, i do it with humor, and it doesn't feel too serious! i have made many goals publicly, declaring my new found absolute resolve to change things about myself. have I ever reported my progress on any of them? i can only imagine that you know i am far from perfect, because i haven't been translated yet!

my family? they. are. not. perfect. either. (there, publicly declared) but isn't the point of journal sharing, helping others feel hope? building the positive, and trying not to accentuate the negative? don't we all know what our faults are? aren't we very harsh judges of ourselves? how many of us need to be told by others what we are doing wrong...don't we already know? so, as for me and my blog, i will try to be REAL, but i am sure that i will accentuate the positive. and consider this my declaration; we (the bunker's), are walking along the same path of life as you. ups and downs, happiness and sorrows, excitement and boredom, anxiety, frustration, worry, trials, peace, love, hope, faith and repentance.

my grandchildren? they. are. completely. perfect.



good night!

8 comments:

Kathy's Boys said...

I couldn't have said it better myself!
Thanks for that!! You know that saying..."If you can't say anything nice...don't say anything at all!"
We're all just trying to enjoy the journey!! Loveya

suzanne said...

the best part about blogs is that they preserve our memories... and when my kids go back and read our memories, i want them to know that their mom was happy.

i love the bunkers.

Grama Linda said...

I know that we all kinda look better on our blogs than we really are... But, hey I am all for anything good, uplifting and happy.. there is plenty of the other stuff already. I love reading each others blogs and feeling inspired, encouraged, hopeful and able to laugh with each other through all the good and maybe not so good that comes our way...that's what friends are for...and you do it beautifully Susan!
And yes, Little Beau is PERFECT!! He is so flippin cute!!!
& How could you ever say "no" to Lauren about anything? She is a major heart melter!!!

We are so blessed!!!!

Carrie said...

I love it! Nobody is perfect. We are all just doing the best we can. I like that you are positive. It reminds me of something that President Hinckley might say. Keep smiling! You do have beautiful grandkids.

email and phone numbers said...

please don't knock over the pedestal I have the Bunker fam on.... I kinda like you all up there!

I'll leave your grandkids there 'cause I totally agree with how perfect they are. DARLING NEW BABY BOY BEAU! Congrats again!

Janae' said...

Did you know one of my favorite things about you (and you're adorable family) is that you can laugh at yourself. I've always loved that part of you.

I'm with Suzanne. I love the Bunkers...perfect or not :)

Janae'

april said...

you must have been reading my mind the last four months. It is true we all blog the good things. who wants to read the bad. It is hard to remember we all have trials when your in your own pity party. thanks for the reality check. love you.

michelle said...

I love reading blogs and hearing the good things that are happening. I know we all have junk happen to us and if it is funny I like to hear about it. I kinda like the good and you can tell me the bad in person. Keep it coming.