Tuesday, January 26, 2010

HAILEY BUNKER TURNS 15!!!



My baby girl is fifteen years old! Can that be? She sure thinks so. :)

Here is her birthday interview:
What do you wish you were getting for your birthday?
the SUN, WARM WEATHER, CANCUN!

What do you hope this year brings? What are you looking forward to?
happiness: getting my driving permit!

What is your favorite physical activity?
any kind of good exercise = swimming, dancing, partying

What is your favorite TV show?
One Tree Hill, Grey's Anatomy

What is your favorite food?
yogurt, strawberries, bread, water

What is your favorite flavor of ice cream/frozen yogurt?
vanilla, pomegranate/blueberry, heathbar

What do you like to do on weekends?
relax, hang out with friends, shop

Who do you wish your secret boyfriend was?
Beau, Kameron Cuvelier, McSteamy

Where is your favorite home? Las Vegas or Santa Rosa?
LAS VEGAS!!!

What is your favorite state? NV or CA?
NV is home- but CA in summer (SOUTHERN) for the beach!

What is your favorite accessory?
bracelets, rings, necklaces, belts, beanies

What is your favorite subject in school?
at the moment English - not too much homework; otherwise algebra

Who is your favorite sleeping partner?
anyone who will cuddle with me

Who gives the best back tickles?
MOMMY

That's my girl!

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!! Hailey is a sweetheart! She is loving and helpful and happy (when she's not upset :) and caring and clean and playful and talented and athletic and beautiful and brave and so much more. But this year, the past six months, she hasn't been a quitter! I love that about her too! And most of all, I really love that she is here, in Santa Rosa with us! She is such a great addition to us, and her 160 new brothers and sisters love her too. Imagine all that love! :) I know her next year is going to be happy and fun and full of great memories! Happy Birthday sweetheart! We love you!















Tuesday, January 19, 2010

ten on tuesday

i totally should not be sitting at my computer right now, but i think i have one hour before i need to pick hailey up, and this is what i want to do...so i am doing it. :)


1-a couple of things that happen when i am wearing my missionary tag:
a) people think i work at the store i am in, and start to ask me questions about where things are, or if i can help them find such and such.
b) members of the church ask me where my companion is. they think he is close by, and i forget that they don't understand, and i say stuff like, "oh he isn't here. if i waited for him to come, i would never get anything done." and then they look at me like i am breaking every rule in the missionary handbook.
c) people never look at my eyes. they are trying to read my tag. it is weird.
d) i end up coming home and doing all kinds of household chores in my missionary clothes, complete with scarf and tag. i totally sucked my scarf up in the vacuum today. bummer.

and most important:
e) i feel like a real missionary and it helps me to act like one!

2- we have had two nights and two mornings of torrential rain. more storms expected. i didn't think i would see the sun all week. this morning as jon was getting ready, i was at the computer (looking weary i'm sure) reading and printing letters and jon said to me, "this is going to be a long week." i said, "why, because we won't see the sun?" he was very confused! "no, because of all the stuff that we have to do this week! i love the rain! i'm ready to move to seattle!" who is this man i am married to? and why were we on two completely different planets this morning?

ps- as i had to leave the house to run a few errands (with my tag on, without my companion), the rain turned to a drizzle and then stopped. the sun came out, and i knew my Heavenly Father loves me. tender mercies.

3- eucalyptus trees are not very pretty. they are horribly messy, and just keep falling apart, especially after a big rain. their fallen parts cover the street i drive up to my house, so i have decided i don't really like them. dirty and ugly!




4- hailey is becoming an amazing swimmer! of course, we had just paid for recital costumes at dance, when the meeting came at school for the swim team. practice would be everyday from 3-5. what to do, what to do?!

5- lilies are beautiful and smell incredible. if you get too close to them when they are blooming, you get their pollen stuff all over you...and it stains! word to the wise!



6- after hearing hailey complain about having 5 F's in her classes all semester, we were thrilled when we opened her report card! she actually ended up with two A-'s, one B+, one B- and one C. those grades were hard to come by! they took an incredible amount of time and effort! congratulations hailey!

7-this is our mission brand!


after getting an idea from brent and michelle, we decided to talk to our missionaries a little about the concept of "riding for the brand!" at christmas. after the conference, one of our elder's gave jon a book about cowboy ethics, that he had received as a trade for a book of mormon in napa. the book is beautiful! gorgeous pictures of horses and cowboys and cows! the author's reason for writing the book was to answer this question, "what wall street can learn from the code of the west". he writes, "but imagine what could happen if wall street firms looked back to a simpler time when a handshake was enough to seal a deal, and right and wrong were as clear as black and white. what if executives, portfolio managers, analysts, and traders decided that some things aren't for sale? what if every major investment firm agreed to live by the principle that the client always comes first?" i liked his thinking!

he talks about ten principles that make up the code of the west. i like them. they will be good for our missionaries.

1. Live Each Day With Courage
2. Take Pride In Your Work
3. Always Finish What You Start
4. Do What Has To Be Done
5. Be Tough, But Fair
6. When You Make A Promise, Keep It
7. Ride For The Brand
8. Talk Less And Say More
9. Remember That Some Things Aren’t For Sale
10. Know Where To Draw The Line


i am grateful that my father and my brother are "real" cowboys. i am glad i have a little "cowgirl" in me, though i would never claim to be "real", i love to feel a part of it!

8- it is now night time. we just had our seven departing missionaries over to dinner and a little family home evening. they will be returning home tomorrow! i learned something important tonight.

one of our elder's said, "i never felt comfortable one day on my mission." jon asked him to explain that. he said, "the things we do are not comfortable. we knock on a door and have no idea who will be answering it. we have to be totally awkward around girls. we run up to people pumping gas and hand them a card and tell them 'i love jesus a lot and i'd like you to have this card'." he went on and on. it made sense to me. then they all agreed and said if they didn't have at least one uncomfortable experience a day, they weren't stretching themselves enough. hmmm.

9- word for the day: MOSS! it is everywhere, growing on everything, and i'm not sure how i feel about it. i was carrying a box downstairs yesterday and almost slipped on some moss (growing on the stairs) and broke my back. i don't think i am a fan of moss. i think it is creeping me out a little, to be honest.






get the picture?

10- i am weary. every first monday and tuesday of the transfer (6 week period) is exhausting! of course in a really good way, but exhausting just the same. new missionaries monday, departing missionaries tuesday. i'm feeling ready for some 24 to wind down...what do you think?

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Megan = Dean's List

I got Megan's transcript in the mail today for her first semester in college. Three A's, three A-'s and one B+. Thats what I'm talking about!!! It said her grade point average is a 3.76 and then it said Dean's List. DEAN'S LIST! Congratulations Megan! Way to go...way to show us all what you can do!

I believe all of my daughters will graduate from college someday. Heck, I believe I will graduate from college someday. But, Megan had a stellar semester!! She is showing a lot of promise! We love you beautiful!

Monday, January 11, 2010

the ensign


During sacrament meeting the first week of January, our Bishop stood up and read a letter from the First Presidency urging us to read the Ensign magazine. I have been reading! I know. I should have been better all along, but I have been learning and loving it. Today as I was reading I came upon something that I loved. The article was called "Healing My Homesickness" by Sue Hirase. OK, I may have had issues with this topic during my life. Anyway, this was her answer. I thought it was applicable to me, to my children and to my missionaries. It is applicable to all of us, and will be over and over again in our lives.

"Perhaps the most valuable result of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it ought to be done, whether you like it or not."

Food for a Monday thought.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

a new year...

as i sat this afternoon in jon's den, listening to his loving advise to our beautiful, brave, sweet daughter, i couldn't help but think that his advise was just what i needed to hear. he was promising her that when our mission was over, we would look back and be able to see how much we had grown, how much we had learned, and how many weaknesses the Lord had helped us to make into strengths.

he asked her what she thought some of her strengths were, what were some things she was good at, what she liked about herself. they listed off several things. then he asked her, what was something she didn't like about herself, or what was a weakness that she thought she had. it got me thinking. about myself. we have been serving for six months now...have i become stronger in any of my weak areas? in two and a half more years, when we are driving away from santa rosa towards newport beach for our month long retreat (he promised!), will I be able to see a difference in myself, for the better?

i am certainly aware of many weaknesses in myself! how will the Lord help me to make them strengths if i don't start trying more diligently to be better. to do the things i am preaching about in all of those sacrament meetings and stake conferences. (by the way- we are speaking on the 10th, 17th, 24th and 31st of January---holy cow!) i want to be different. i want to be stronger. i want to be a missionary---forever more. i don't want to be afraid to share the gospel anymore! i want to have faith. i want to feel bold when i have the opportunity to testify. i know the Lord will help me, i know He will. together we will make me stronger at my weak things. that is what i was thinking about today. changing. becoming stronger.

as i looked out the window i saw a couple of HUGE chipmunks running up and down the trees, then i spotted a doe and a buck casually eating between the tennis court and our front/side yard. i watched them for ten minutes, comfortably grazing and looking around. then hailey and i opened the garage as we were heading to dance. the smell of skunk hit us both. this is the strangest land i have ever lived in. we live in a neighborhood. there are forty to fifty houses in our neighborhood, i think. we are not out in the middle of nowhere, where animals should be comfortable living and grazing. there are many people and cars and dogs (lots and lots of dogs) always cruising around the neighborhood, but deer and skunks and wild turkeys feel comfortable here, living amongst us as well. a very strange land indeed!

this strange land is growing on me. it is really starting to plant itself in my little heart. a part of me does not want to love this land, because i don't want it to be hard for me when we leave. but i guess i have no choice. it is happening all on its own.

Sunday, January 3, 2010

happiness is...

...being one of the butt sisters! (only why is mine extra wide?)


...grandchildren that love each other!



...living for forty nine wonderful years!


...going to san francisco thanksgiving weekend!






...having a grand daughter that wants to be a missionary!


...having ALL of your children around you on your 49th birthday!





...having some help to decorate a "real" christmas tree!


...going christmas shopping in union square!


...being able to stop on the side of the road to go pee-pee! ("this is a great idea!")


...celebrating 28 years of wedded bliss!


...getting a bicycle (named the "jenny") for christmas!


...your very own 1 pound bag of pine nuts!


...celebrating your 51st birthday with your grandchildren, in the mission field!



...the wonderful warmth of a sunny day after the rain is gone!
(i met a fellow rebel fan walking his dog as i went outside to take a picture of this beautiful day!)


...feeling the love and warmth and testimony of 160 full time missionaries!



...getting christmas cards with pictures and updates from friends and family!


...catching beau after he unrolled a whole roll of toilet paper!


...laughing about sadie falling and megan's monkey face in the christmas eve team photo!



...listening to the sweetest voice on earth tell you that she loves you!



...playing golf with your son!


...cuddling with beau, just because he loves his blanket and wants to snuggle if you are holding them both!


...visiting the oakland temple and seeing the chirstmas lights on new year's eve!



happiness is not...
...freezing at the beach in late november. (though the scenery was beautiful!)



...having to go to the emergency room when your back completely gives out and you lose the use of your right leg.


...taking down christmas decorations. (a little sad this year!) i think my house is more cheerful decorated.


...having to say good-bye.