Monday, November 16, 2009

Elder Craig and Sister Jan Zwick


Unbelievably, this was the only picture I got of the four of us! Can you tell I was a little out of sorts? My brain can only do so many things at once, and for some reason personal pictures were not a high priority. I am bummed. But, alas, the memories are in my mind and I will try to write some down so that I don't forget.

As the Zwick's arrived the first thing out of their mouth was, "Thank you. Thank you for what you are doing." Very sincerely. And that's pretty much how the whole three days went! They were so kind and supportive and helpful. They have had experiences that they could tell stories about for a good, solid week. (And I could have listened to every one) Sister Zwick was very thoughtful about the house. If I had really started whining, I'm sure she would have put a bug in some one's ear, but after hearing about the house they lived in in Chile, I certainly couldn't complain! She told us, "When we got there, there was red carpet throughout the house. The last President had had a dog so there were stains all over. There was a bright pink couch on the red carpet and behind the couch hung a velvet picture like you might buy in Tijuana!" OK. She wins. Hers is worse! We were just grateful they weren't upset with the changes we had made.

From the moment they met Hailey, they treated her like she was the greatest thing since "sliced bread". They were so sweet to her, she immediately felt comfortable and happy around them. They took a 16 year old daughter with them to Chile when they served as Mission President there, actually four children accompanied them (one handicapped), so I think they really had a clue what Hailey has been feeling and going through these last four months. At their request, Hailey missed school on Friday and came to Conference with us. She sat on the stand with us and at the beginning of the meeting Elder Zwick asked her if she would come up and stand next to him, and then he asked her to tell the missionaries what "being on the mission has meant to her and her family, and how she felt about her Savior". She was really amazing when she spoke! And I think for the first time, she was really starting to feel like she believed what she was saying (about being here on the mission). I think she is always honest when bearing her testimony! :)

One of the greatest things for me about having them here, was being able to ask some one for advise. Some one who had a lot of experience, and who was like me. Some one I trusted! That was nice. My favorite part of the "tour" was shaking hands with each one of my Elders and hugging tightly each one of my Sisters. The Spirit was overwhelming and the love I felt for "my missionaries" was over powering. Hands down the best part.

I learned so much! And I think each of our missionaries did too. They were taught by the spirit, and therefore learned what they needed to hear to help them. It was wonderful! I bet Jon has had fun reading the missionaries letters today. They write him each Monday. I bet they have been great! We were truly blessed this past week. When it was time to say good-bye, I honestly felt like I would miss Jan (Sister Zwick) being by my side. Funny how you can feel so connected in such a short time when you are both working for the same cause! It has been a great learning experience. I was exhausted. Then Saturday and Sunday were the Santa Rosa Stake Conference. These people are getting sick of hearing from us...I am sure!

Jon has a killer week of interviews ahead. I don't know how to help him with that. I feel like I am a little on cruise control, for a day or two. YIPPEE! Maybe a trip to Ikea is in store, so I can buy my own set of white dishes. It is time. Again, thoughts of Thanksgiving keep popping into my head and I get pretty excited to see all of "my people". Life is good! We are blessed!

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

waiting on wednesday...

well, the day is here! elder and sister zwick should be arriving at 1:00. i think everything is ready, so i decided to sit down and write while i have a few minutes. it has been interesting trying to prepare for this day. food to think about, a talk to be written (most stressful for sure), hailey moved out of her room, hoping the house is clean enough, and trying not to feel like a hypocrite as i pulled on my nylons this morning :). i really can't believe how calm i feel though. what a tender mercy! i feel like this will be a wonderful three days, for our missionaries and for us!

i ran into four of our missionaries this morning as i was trying to buy some bagels for elder zwick. (they don't have normal bagel stores here...but i think i found some that will be tasty.) they were all big eyed asking, "is he here yet?", "do you know anything about him?" i could feel their excitement and nervousness, not knowing what to expect. i'm sure they will be overcome as they each shake his hand tomorrow morning before our meeting begins! i am sure tomorrow will be a day many of them will never forget! we just don't get to be around general authorities very often these days, and close enough for a handshake and a look into the soul! yikes. did i have to write that? what a blessing for our mission!

so, the stress feels like it is past (though it may come back around 5:00 as i'm trying to get dinner ready!), and my nerves are much better than they have been. thanks for your extra prayers in our behalf. the Lord is truly blessing me. here's to a marvelous three days! :)

Thursday, November 5, 2009

ten on thursday.

1. i have been neglecting my personal blog and it makes me very sad.
i am going to try to do better. we'll see.

2. i have complained about fresca before. i repent. when all you are drinking is water...fresca is really a special treat! :)


3. this week THE BUNKER'S received a very large box in the mail. from their dear canyon gate ward family. i'm pretty sure kathie dye was the inspiration behind the box. she always amazes me! what a totally unexpected, perfectly timed, much loved and much appreciated gift. we got (my favorite) soap and lotion for the kitchen sink, perfect dish towels (my other favorite), a harvest cookbook (YES i will use it, i am cooking a lot these days) and a very fun thanksgiving decoration. the bestest part was all of the love notes written by our loved ones back home. each day i go and take the notes out for the day of the month, and read and cry and sometimes laugh over what has been written. actually, i am not the only one who is reading the love notes. hailey and jon are totally enjoying them too. it was just the boost we needed this week! thank you!


4. hailey's toe nail is officially gone. the whole thing, off her big toe. it was kind of gruesome as it tore away little by little, but is such a relief to have it completely gone now. (she wanted to save it and put it inside a cupcake for kristen at thanksgiving. i threw it away!)




5. today i went to visit the napa and fairfield zones. with the president and his assistants of course. they continued on to the vacaville and woodland zones after it was time for me to come home and pick hailey up from school. my point? it is always so wonderful to meet with our missionaries!!! they truly make all of this worthwhile. the majority of them are trying so hard, working, obedient, trying to figure out how they can do more, have more faith, be more obedient so that the miracles will come. they are so willing to "give away all my sins to know thee." (like King Lamoni's father...Alma 22) they are so grateful for the gospel and the atonement of our Savior, that they find joy in trying to share that "good news" with their brethren in northern california. i love the missionaries of the california, santa rosa mission!

6. i went to the dermatologist yesterday. had a little spot on my forearm biopsied. :) yes. i am old and i have a lot of skin damage!

7. elder zwick and his wife come to visit a week from yesterday. i wish i could be totally relaxed and just love every minute we have to spend with them. I feel myself getting a little closer to that every day...but especially thanks to rhonda, for her encouragement and her personal knowledge of him. it makes me feel like we will be ok.

8. the promised picture of the greened up land, with just a little rain. it has amazed me! it has been so dry all summer, then it rained a little and now it is greening up. i guess that happens when you aren't in the desert.


9. only 21 more days until i see ALL of my children here in santa rosa! i am so, so excited! happy birthday to me...i am counting down! this is what i look at everyday. not the same as up close and personal.


10. i am done. out of anything worthwhile to say. CHANGED MY MIND: number ten is: i love you all! happy trails!